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The Family Echo Effect™: How Your Marriage Fights Show Up in Your Parenting
(The Marriage–Parenting Systems Series: Part 2)
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
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Why Fixing Your Marriage is the Best Parenting Hack No One Talks About
(The Marriage–Parenting Systems Series: Part 1)
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
The Superposition Principle of Emotional Truth
You can be hurt and still love them. You can be disappointed and grateful. Welcome to quantum-level family therapy.
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
Resentment Is a Sign You’ve Betrayed Yourself (Not That They’ve Wronged You)
When you’re always giving, compromising, and keeping the peace, resentment starts to feel inevitable. But what if the real betrayal wasn’t theirs—it was…
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT

July 2025

That Door You Held Open? It Was Never About Them.
How external validation traps us in resentment—and what real integrity in families actually looks like.
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
When You’re Hurting but They’re Exploding: How to Stay Grounded When Your Partner Can’t Handle Your Pain
Understanding emotional volatility, reactivity, and how to speak to the pain behind the blow-up
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
Please Don’t Fix Me—Just Sit With Me While I Bleed Emotionally
Without Passing Out Or Creating A Blowout...
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
You’re Not Arguing With Your Partner—You’re Arguing With Your Past
Why every fight feels personal (even when it isn’t), and how to finally stop reenacting your pain like it’s a Broadway revival.
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
Principles Over Problems!
Focusing on Principles over problems allows kids to understand the bigger picture of what we are all trying to clinstill in their character.
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
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You’re Not Crazy. You’re Just Stuck in a Rupture-Repair Loop No One Ever Taught You How to Complete.
Why your fights feel unfinished, your apologies feel hollow, and your “we’re good now” usually isn’t.
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
You’re Not Wrong. They’re Not Wrong. Here’s the Word That Changes Everything.
Because someone doesn’t have to be wrong for everyone to be hurting.
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
This One Word Is Sabotaging Your Fights
And You Don’t Even Know It
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
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