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Estrangement Isn't a New Feeling. It's a Newly Affordable One.
A family therapist's both-sides look at the estrangement wave: why parents and adult children pay for love in two different currencies, and why most…
Aug 11
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
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You're Not Sharing Your Feelings. You're Building a Case!
Why the people you love stop listening the moment you finally open up, and the three-step shift that gets you actually heard.
Aug 10
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
You Can’t Punish Your Kid Into Having a Better Brain
If bigger consequences worked, your house would already be fixed. Here’s what actually moves the needle, and where to hear me talk about it live on…
Jul 31
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
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You’re Not Wrong. They’re Not Wrong. Here’s the Word That Changes Everything.
Jul 10, 2025
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
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You’re Not Arguing With Your Partner—You’re Arguing With Your Past
Jul 16, 2025
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
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How Your Attachment Style Is Destroying Your Marriage
Mar 9
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
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3.) Emotional Maturity Isn’t a Trait — It’s a Skill (Especially in Conflict)
May 27, 2025
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
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6.) Healing After Cutting Off Family
Jun 21, 2025
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
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Resentment Is a Sign You’ve Betrayed Yourself (Not That They’ve Wronged You)
Aug 4, 2025
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
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4.) Rebuilding Family Trust After Differentiation
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