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You Aced the Date Nights and Still Got a C
Your partner isn't grading the concerts. They're grading Tuesday.
Sep 25
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
It’s a Good Thing You Feel Bad
What I told my 5-year-old after he rammed his sister's tricycle, and what nobody told you.
Sep 23
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
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Getting Out of the Tribute Trap
The actual conversations. What to say to a spouse who’s been paying tribute for a decade, what to say to a kid who thinks everything he does is for you…
Sep 5
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
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You’re Not Wrong. They’re Not Wrong. Here’s the Word That Changes Everything.
Jul 10, 2025
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
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You’re Not Arguing With Your Partner—You’re Arguing With Your Past
Jul 16, 2025
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
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How Your Attachment Style Is Destroying Your Marriage
Mar 9
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
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3.) Emotional Maturity Isn’t a Trait — It’s a Skill (Especially in Conflict)
May 27, 2025
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
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6.) Healing After Cutting Off Family
Jun 21, 2025
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
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4.) Open Emotional Curiosity
May 28, 2025
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
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The Harder You Love, The Emptier It Gets
The tribute trap: why the harder you try, the emptier it gets, and the one shift that turns it around.
Sep 4
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
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From Blame, Shame, and Guilt to Explore, Explain, Evolve
Why you keep having the same fight over and over — and the three-step process emotionally curious couples use to turn conflict into connection.
Aug 31
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
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Estrangement Isn't a New Feeling. It's a Newly Affordable One.
A family therapist's both-sides look at the estrangement wave: why parents and adult children pay for love in two different currencies, and why most…
Aug 11
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
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You're Not Sharing Your Feelings. You're Building a Case!
Why the people you love stop listening the moment you finally open up, and the three-step shift that gets you actually heard.
Aug 10
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
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You Can’t Punish Your Kid Into Having a Better Brain
If bigger consequences worked, your house would already be fixed. Here’s what actually moves the needle, and where to hear me talk about it live on…
Jul 31
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
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Stop Grading Your Kid Like a Report Card
Come see me talk for free on how to breakthrough this!
Jul 21
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
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You're Not Sharing Your Feelings. You're Building a Case.
Why the people you love stop listening the second you open your mouth — and the one-word reason it's not their fault.
Jun 19
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
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I Do So Much for This Family. Why Does My Partner Still Feel Alone?"
Because the love that keeps a household running and the love that keeps a marriage alive are not the same thing —and confusing them is costing you both.
Jun 17
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
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I Named a Relationship Sabotage Pattern After a French Delicacy and I Have No Regrets
Introducing: Goosenecking. The communication disaster you're definitely having and definitely don't know about.
May 8
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
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Podcast: Your Mom Didn’t Ruin You...
But She’s Probably Why You Do That Thing.
Apr 29
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
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Your Mom Didn't Ruin You...
But She's Probably Why You Do That Thing.
Apr 27
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
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Your Attachment Style at Work
Why You Self-Sabotage Your Career
Mar 23
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
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You’re Passing Your Attachment Wounds to Your Kids Right Now
(Here’s How to Stop)
Mar 18
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Matthew Maynard, LMFT
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